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And I found the solution to this problem and I offer it to any man who may have a similar problem.
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This makes men more attractive…
It’s been proven many times by thousands of my students.
Raising your own testosterone makes guys more attractive to women.
You raise your own T naturally and women start giving you more looks.
Even guys in their 70s and 80s report this.
And women get closer to you.
They start responding to you… more engaged, more flirty, more smiles.
And you can carry this into your sex life.
Now there is this study that proves it (as if we needed proof):
Dr. Richard Slatcher of Wayne State University studied how testosterone increases a man’s attractiveness.
“We found that testosterone levels influenced…how much the woman said she ‘clicked’ with them,” said Dr. Slatcher.
Married guys take heart: Raising your testosterone naturally will increase your wife’s attraction to you and increase your dominance over other guys…
In other words, it makes you more alpha.
Yep, we knew it all along. Now it’s been proven.
As one of my students, Elliot (name changed for privacy) writes:
This can raise your T automatically…
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My mind was ready and racing, but my penis was limp…
Before I reveal the shockingly easy solution to this erection problem…
Let me first show you how to be more successful and confident with work and with women.
Have you ever felt you weren’t quite good enough (even if objectively you are)?
This is called “imposter syndrome” and it can be a huge battle to overcome it so you can reach higher levels of success.
And that battle is tied up in ego.
This might sound strange, but guys could learn a thing or two about how women take this feeling of being an imposter in stride and push through anyway.
This new study shows the different approaches that men and women use to deal with imposter syndrome.
What is imposter syndrome?
“Successful individuals who suffer from what is known as impostor syndrome believe that their success is undeserved and that others overestimate their competence.”
Here’s the thing about imposter syndrome – you can achieve incredible levels of success and STILL feel like a total fake.
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“These investigations have shown that both men and women can display the characteristic symptoms of the syndrome – and that its victims indeed tend to be found among those who have enjoyed outstanding levels of success.”
Men and women deal with imposter syndrome differently.
Despite the current idea that men and women are exactly the same except for body parts, gender does seem to play a role in how we handle certain life situations.
So, the researchers looked at the role of gender in how men and women deal with imposter syndrome.
“A new study, carried out by Brooke Gazdag and a team led by Rebecca L. Badawy of the Department of Management at Youngstown State University in Ohio, examines the role of gender in impostor syndrome.”
People who have imposter syndrome were criticized (justified or not) and the men gave up more quickly than their female counterparts.
“The male participants were more distressed by criticism and tended to give up quicker… The female participants, on the other hand, put forth more effort and performed marginally better than their male counterparts after they had received negative feedback or had been told that their results would be shown to their professors.”
Now I want to be clear here. This was a marginal difference, not a huge one.
But marginal differences do add up over time when it comes to performance and the ability to get the job done.
So, for now, if you feel like you aren’t quite worthy of your success and you get criticism you may want to dig in and try to do better.
But you don’t have to stop there. You can overcome imposter syndrome completely.
How to overcome imposter syndrome.
One of the major breakthroughs in my life was realizing that I had nearly complete control over my own beliefs.
That seems weird to people the first time they hear it, but it’s true.
You can believe anything you want to – and changing your beliefs can change your life.
Lots of books have been written on the subject of changing your beliefs.
But there is also a pretty easy formula – especially for dealing with a belief such as imposter syndrome.
First, identify the belief that you have.
With imposter syndrome, it may be something like “I’ll never be as good as Bob.”
Or it could be something like “I know they think I’m good, but I’m just faking it.”
Then, identify a replacement belief.
It helps if the replacement belief feels okay to you.
You can take steps to get to where you need to be, but don’t make it so radical that your brain rebels.
An example could be, “I’ve won an award for my work, so I must be good.”
Next, look for evidence to support the new belief.
Perhaps when you win awards you could display them prominently in your workspace.
Or when you get good feedback from your colleagues you simply say thank you instead of excusing yourself and your expertise.
Dealing with imposter syndrome can hold you back in your workplace.
But it doesn’t have to. You can push through it and you can even change what you believe about yourself.
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My mind was racing, ready for the pleasures to come, but my penis was just limp…
I noticed it a few years ago – I would imagine sex that would go on for hours, different positions I would like and so on…
But when playtime actually began, I couldn’t even get an erection.
My mind wanted it, but my body just didn’t respond.
That’s when I learned about the brain-penile connection…
…I mean that my brain couldn’t send “get an erection” signals to my penis – the connection was broken somewhere.
But luckily, after years of struggle, I found the solution to this problem and I offer it to any man who may have a similar problem.
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