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This newsletter is exceptionally interesting because it shows you how to stay in love forever.

What do you think — can you be in love forever?

It also shows you that you can change the way experiences affect you.

If you talk about certain types of experiences, you’ll find that the emotional content will drain out of them.

And eventually, they don’t make you feel anything about them at all.

A man named James Pennebaker found the method years ago.

He found that if you write about bad experiences a certain way, they lose their pain.

The angst, fear, and trauma drain away while you were writing.

And in the end, there was not any fear or negative emotion left.

And you can move on.

when individuals write about emotional experiences, significant physical and mental health improvements follow.

I found that this is very true.

And I use I use Dr. Pennebaker’s methods in many of my home study courses about fear and overcoming performance anxiety.

But now there is an even more interesting study that comes out that will help you fall in love and stay in love.

It can finally tell us how to keep a long-term relationship.

One thing that Dr. Pennebaker did not do was show how we can keep a positive experience positive.

The hardest thing may be staying in love.

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I have such admiration for many of the men that are in my various courses and subscriber lists.

There are over 55,000 men on these lists at this point.

I especially admire the men who have been married to the same woman for 50 or 60 or 70 years.

I admire that they feel a strong love and attachment — perhaps more than they did when they first got married.

In another newsletter I’m going to talk about the crucial ingredients to lasting love.

But for now, I want to discuss how you can stay in love.

And I’ll discuss how you can continue enjoying a positive memory without it going stale.

Dr. Moore did a series of studies ranging from interviews to examining thousands of Amazon.com reviews.

She found that if you have a high emotional content about an emotional event, talking about it dilutes the emotion.

Eventually, it will leave you cold.

For example, if you have a great vacation and you’re feeling wonderful, you’ll start telling people about it.

Eventually, you won’t feel that the vacation was all that great.

It’s the same with any emotional event.

Discuss it with others, and it will lose its powerful positive punch.

This is the other side of Dr. Pennebaker’s discovery.

With a very negative that you write about, the negativity is diluted.

And over time, you can get past the negative event.

But Dr. Moore found the same thing is true of positive emotional events.

Talking about them dilutes their emotional content.

So the best long term relationship advice could be to not talk about it.

Dr. Moore says there are two different kinds of events you could talk about.

One type of event is a cognitive event.

It’s something you do for a purpose, such as buying tires, taking a trip on a jet, or buying a book.

If you talk about this or think about it a lot, your feelings will jell.

But they don’t get any better or any worse.

The other type of event is an emotional event, such as a pure feeling you have of being close with your family or significant other.

The more you talk about that, the less emotion you will feel.

In an interview, Dr. Moore says:

There’s a saying that you should never ask anyone why they love you. This is true — don’t do it. You shouldn’t be rationalizing or analyzing that feeling because the more you do, the more it fades.

So the next time your girlfriend asks you why you’re not saying anything, you know what to say.

You can tell her that Dr. Moore advises you not to talk about that you feel really good about.

Tell you that you want to stay in love forever, so you can’t talk about it.

I hope that gets you off the hook, LOL.

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